Molestation, the sister of Rape


MOLESTATION, RAPE’S SISTER

As a teenager, I feel distraught when I see and hear that child/teenagers of my age, younger or older is being molested. However, before I go into full details, What is Molestation?

Molestation or better said sexual molestation is the act of touching or fondling a people in sensitive parts of their bodies or by making them carry out sexual activities without their consents.

It is really disheartning to see young children being molested, I don’t see a genuine reason why anyone would do such. Under no circumstatnces should one molest or be molested.

The victims of molestation are mostly children either by the adults or their peers who obviously could overpower them both in knowledge and strength. Molesters molest due to sheer ignorance, most of them were also once molested and the simple truth is that molestation affects the victims psychologically, emotionally and morally. Molesters are also prone to curses and it is believed that anyone that does that also invokes God’s wrath on his/herself.

The same effect rape victims face is also the same effect the victims of molestation by just touching and fingering face.

I believe that most molesters do not know the grave consequences of their actions both on themselves and their victims or they perhaps ignore them.

On social media we read cases of children being molested at the tender age of five and six by older members of their families who may belong to both genders and such development is an evidence of moral decadence. IT IS EVIL!.

I came to the conclusion that if this youngsters are well enlightened and told the consequences of their grievous act, there will be a reduction If not an end in the molestation of young children.

Molesters and potential molesters should be taught to control their thoughts which leads to such grievous act for such in action is more dangerous than pointing a gun to the forehead of that little boy or girl.

Most victims of molestation end up being extremely vulnerable to more sexual abuse and basically will make them ready for all types of self destructive tendencies sooner or later.

Research have shown it that 95% of people who were sexually molested as children never make it through life emotionally stable.

Some of them would end up becoming molesters and rapists while others would become extremely promiscous and sexually volatile.

Most have gone to early graves as a result of depression in connection to their awful experience.

Only an extremely wicked and evil person can decide to molest someone basically young children.

It is wrong to molest and worst when it is with children but molesters in no time catches up with their waterloo.

The best thing for someone who happens to have molested someone is to come clean and do his/herself a favour by telling someone what you have done and make sure that the victims gets the required help on time.

As aforesaid, molestation is not limited to the children, adults are not only left out, infact adults are the major perpetrators of such act. Some adults give the excuse that they molested a child due to the fact that the child’s parent offended them in one way or the other.

Well, to you adult who do this, you are extremely wicked, evil and senseless.

Are there not any other ways you can get at the child’s erring parents than to molest their innocent children as a form of revenge? This is extreme foolishness and wicked.

I promise all the perpetrators of this evil act that you will surely face the consequences.

It is what you cannot run away from, unless you do the right thing by making sure the child receives the required help and care.

Well, let me stop here, Molestation is nothing good but evil, the fact that it is just the touching or fondling of a young person in sensitive parts of their body doesn’t mean it isn’t greivous.

Lest I forget, our parent also have a role to play.

Like I will always say no one is to be trusted, the person you think you can trust might not be trust worthy.

Providimg basic amenities for your child is not enough, as a parent you are to do every thing possible to give your children unreserved interest and sensitivity even when they are being annoyingly childish.

Most children are raped and molested under the nose of their parent.

Peace.

Edited by Soul’e Rhymez ™

About Samuel Oluwatimilehin

A Teenage Blogger,Writer and Poet. he loves writings, reading, surfing the internet, researching. He dreams of becoming a communication expert, journalist and a world class writer and poet. He is also always ready to share his knowledge about life with people.

Posted on December 9, 2015, in #My Opinions and Thoughts and tagged , , , , , . Bookmark the permalink. 2 Comments.

  1. It’s great to see a young man kicking against child molestation in this generation. Keep up the good work, Timileyin.

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