Category Archives: #My Opinions and Thoughts
This category includes Timzy Wonderz various opinions, perspective, views and thoughts concerning certain issues in life
Happy New Year, Happy New Year, Happy New year.
We finally made it to year 2016, aren’t we favoured?, don’t we deserve to be grateful to God. For granting us the grace to see this new Year. Dear readers it is not by our power, neither is it by our might.
I believe solely that 2016 will be our year of greatness. We shall all achieve greatness and all good tidings of life in this year. God almighty will see us through this year, has He saw us through 2015.
My word of advise for you is to learn from the mistakes you made in 2015 and be wise, don’t be a fool by repeating such mistake.
happy new year once again. It is our year of Greatness.
Do Hooligans and Thugs have a future?
Am a believer that there is know one who can’t make it in life. Am also a believer that everyone has a future, not just a future but a bright future. Regardless of whom you are, a murderer, an area boy, a thief, an armed robber and an hooligan. You still have a future.
Long before I do shake my head whenever I see area boys, hooligans, thugs. I see them as irresponsible human beings. As people who just don’t have plans for their lives but this Idealogy had changed longtime ago even as a teenager.
I know of lot of people who ended their lives as conductors, area boys due to all forms of circumstances, I know that lots of people will say that most of this conductors, hooligans, area boys, thugs are who they are, where they are due to lack of home training, reckless living, negative peer group influence and even due to lack of education. Yes it is true, some of this hooligans, thugs are who they are because of the above factors, but one thing lot of people have come to mistaken is that this people don’t have future, this people will end up living a reckless and useless life, truth is this people are a nuisance to the society but this article is treating the aspect that says ”Do they have a future?”.
Am not a supporter of thugs and hooligans but have come to realise that most of this hooligans, thugs, area boys went to secondary school and some even attained first degree in the university yet they ended up as hooligans, thugs and a nuisance to the society.
Have we ever asked ourselves if this people have a future? You may say what’s your business but as a patriotic citizen of this country, as a person who claims to make a change, someone who wants to change and touch lives, also have to put in mind the future of this thugs and hooligans. I must say that this country won’t change and won’t overcome the various challenges we are facing if the hooligans and thugs are not wiped out. Wiped out in the sense that this hooligans themselves become a changed person, a useful and relevant person to the society. I don’t totally agree in the fact when hooligans and thugs arrested there will be an end to hooliganism. No, rather there will be an increase. Come to think of it using the Boko Haram sect in Nigeria as an example though this sect are terrorist but we can say that thousands of them have being killed and some have being arrested but as that put an end to terrorism in Nigeria? Rather there is an increase in their violent ways. What we need is not only the arresting and killing of this people but also a change of orientation.
So back to where am going to, do hooligans and thugs have a future? My answer to this is Yes they still have a future. They are same humans with you and I, they were created by God with a purpose. But most of them have failed to realise this. I will say that I don’t blame this people for their way of life, rather the government, the society, parents, schools where this set of people came from. I also blame it on the lack of true education. Most of them are victims and products of broken homes, damaged society, negative peer pressure etc. The simple truth is that most of this hooligans and thugs had know one to advise them, they had know one to tell them that what you are doing is wrong, what you are doing is bad. Most of them are Ignorant of the fact that their way of life is leading them to destruction if they don’t change for good.
The point am buttresing is that we should stop seeing looking at hooligans as irresponsible people, as failures, useless people. this people are also where they are because of people like you and I have failed to reach them and advise them.
Most of this people are doing what they are doing due to poverty, they have failed to think of legal and better ways to survive in life but rather they become hooligans and thugs. They are in financial bondage and this is because they are ignorant. You and I have failed to reach this people. I can say that most of them don’t even like their way of life, but they don’t know how to go about it. That is where you and I have work to do.
For christ sake this people have a future, they can become better citizens, they can be useful to the society, they can make an impact, they have a future!
Don’t be suprised that some ex-hooligans and thugs became a changed person and some then becaome governors, some CEO’s of companies etc. So stop degrading and start sharing the love to this people, sit this people down and prayerfully advise them.
If you are not financially handicapped help them financially. Some of them are thugs and hooligans due to poverty.
Share the love, touch lives. Hooligans and thugs have a future.
Thanks for reading.
Do Great Minds Think Alike?
In my state of confusion and eagerness to learn and get enlightened, I had to ask two awesome personality which I so much respect and see as wise fellows, This fellows are indeed blessed with God’s wisdom.
Do great minds think alike? They both gave me an answer but one was able to shed more light on the saying.
The first person I asked was Soul’e Rhymez a world class writer and founder of True education Campaign. He really shed more light to the saying do great minds think alike. He said
Great minds think alike but the great there is relative, so the relativity determines the alikeness. So after sharing my own view he further went on to explain that
Greatness is relative but only one matters and that’s the one nurtured by ambvision.
You can’t have everyone agree to what you do but you can look for people that believe in the same course.
This to me shed more light to the question correctly.
While the second awesome personality replied me saying
Great Minds don’t think alike all the time
This answer which was in line with my thought. Before asking this great people I had concluded already that great minds don’t think alike all the time. But in order to be sure I had to ask them coz they are more wiser and experienced than I am.
My own view on the question was No, due to the fact that we humans have different views, different opinions, different perspective towards issues of life. We tend to see things in different ways and from diiferent angles some think outside the box and others think within the box. so there is no way we humans can think alike, though sometimes we have similar views but not all the time.
I then concluded that the saying great minds think alike should have being Great minds think differently, but respect each others opinions and then reason together, which I guess was on point but Soul’e rhymez view gave a better answer.
You can’t have everyone agree to what you do but you can look for people that believe in the same course. Though I will say this depends on the issue at hand.
Great minds don’t think alike all the time but they are to respect each other’s opinions and reason together. You can also always find people with your same opnions in which you will work together without differences in opinions and achieve greatness.
So what’s your take?
You may still have a different opinions to this question and answers don’t be a stranger. All opinions are respected in here and also remember this is the HOME OF GREAT MINDS
Thanks for reading
Have a pleasant day ahead
MOLESTATION, RAPE’S SISTER
As a teenager, I feel distraught when I see and hear that child/teenagers of my age, younger or older is being molested. However, before I go into full details, What is Molestation?
Molestation or better said sexual molestation is the act of touching or fondling a people in sensitive parts of their bodies or by making them carry out sexual activities without their consents.
It is really disheartning to see young children being molested, I don’t see a genuine reason why anyone would do such. Under no circumstatnces should one molest or be molested.
The victims of molestation are mostly children either by the adults or their peers who obviously could overpower them both in knowledge and strength. Molesters molest due to sheer ignorance, most of them were also once molested and the simple truth is that molestation affects the victims psychologically, emotionally and morally. Molesters are also prone to curses and it is believed that anyone that does that also invokes God’s wrath on his/herself.
The same effect rape victims face is also the same effect the victims of molestation by just touching and fingering face.
I believe that most molesters do not know the grave consequences of their actions both on themselves and their victims or they perhaps ignore them.
On social media we read cases of children being molested at the tender age of five and six by older members of their families who may belong to both genders and such development is an evidence of moral decadence. IT IS EVIL!.
I came to the conclusion that if this youngsters are well enlightened and told the consequences of their grievous act, there will be a reduction If not an end in the molestation of young children.
Molesters and potential molesters should be taught to control their thoughts which leads to such grievous act for such in action is more dangerous than pointing a gun to the forehead of that little boy or girl.
Most victims of molestation end up being extremely vulnerable to more sexual abuse and basically will make them ready for all types of self destructive tendencies sooner or later.
Research have shown it that 95% of people who were sexually molested as children never make it through life emotionally stable.
Some of them would end up becoming molesters and rapists while others would become extremely promiscous and sexually volatile.
Most have gone to early graves as a result of depression in connection to their awful experience.
Only an extremely wicked and evil person can decide to molest someone basically young children.
It is wrong to molest and worst when it is with children but molesters in no time catches up with their waterloo.
The best thing for someone who happens to have molested someone is to come clean and do his/herself a favour by telling someone what you have done and make sure that the victims gets the required help on time.
As aforesaid, molestation is not limited to the children, adults are not only left out, infact adults are the major perpetrators of such act. Some adults give the excuse that they molested a child due to the fact that the child’s parent offended them in one way or the other.
Well, to you adult who do this, you are extremely wicked, evil and senseless.
Are there not any other ways you can get at the child’s erring parents than to molest their innocent children as a form of revenge? This is extreme foolishness and wicked.
I promise all the perpetrators of this evil act that you will surely face the consequences.
It is what you cannot run away from, unless you do the right thing by making sure the child receives the required help and care.
Well, let me stop here, Molestation is nothing good but evil, the fact that it is just the touching or fondling of a young person in sensitive parts of their body doesn’t mean it isn’t greivous.
Lest I forget, our parent also have a role to play.
Like I will always say no one is to be trusted, the person you think you can trust might not be trust worthy.
Providimg basic amenities for your child is not enough, as a parent you are to do every thing possible to give your children unreserved interest and sensitivity even when they are being annoyingly childish.
Most children are raped and molested under the nose of their parent.
Edited by Soul’e Rhymez ™
Are you ashamed of your Age
This morning a friend and I were both discussing about some issues, then he brought up a matter about people forging their age, when he first brought up the matter I was kinda indifferent about the topic, he was like there is a lot of people who forge their age etc.
At first i didn’t see anything bad in it reason being that, I also do add to my age, most times I add 2 or 3 years to my age or even more. And also
in all my social media accounts apart from my twitter account i didn’t fill in my real age. So this didn’t allow me see anything bad in adding to ones age until when i got home and gave it a thought
Why do people add to their age?
Why do people reduce their age?
Is it that they are ashamed of it or is there anything bad in it?
on the first question why do people add to their age, i reasoned on my little mind that people add to their age for no just reason, but due to the fact that they don’t want to be seen has a young person, some other people also add to their age because of employment opportunities and many more. Some people also add to their age because they are ignorant of the fact that it shouldn’t be.
On the second question why do people reduce their age? I will say this is the mani koko lot of people have reduced and many people are still reducing it. I can say that I know a lot of people due to employment opportunities and other things. I remembered a time in Nigeria when the Nigeria Football Association were recruiting players for either the U-20 football team. I can’t remember precisely which of the Nigeria football team. Alot of Nigerians were said to have reduced their age.
So right now in my own view for any reason one shouldn’t add or reduce their age, forging age or any docunment is wrong, it is a sin.
There was a story I read about a woman, this woman along with few other ladies applied for a Job, though the qualification for the Job stated that the applicant must be between the age of 20 – 25 unfortunately for the ladies they were 2 to 4 years older, the other ladies reduced their age but this lady didn’t reduce her age she was seen as stupid and someone who wasn’t smart but this Lady told herself that for no reason would she forge or reduce her age, other ladies forged their age and the truth was they got but within the space of two months they were sacked and the other lady that didn’t forge her age oc of employment opportunity was called upon for the job.
That’s the way it should be. I see it that it is only if one is ashamed of ones age that’s when one will be forced to add/reduce his/her age
Are you ashamed of your age?
Will you for any reason forge your age?
Is it good for one to forge his/her age
I will like to know your opinions and views about this post in the comment section.
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